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February 14, 2014

This Much I Know About Love

By Piya Chee

I start this post with a caveat. I’m no expert in love, and have to be the least qualified to talk about love among the Maven Potters with no man to date this Valentine’s and the last, and the last before the last . . . you get the drift. But I did clock enough mileage on …

September 4, 2013

Confession of Cyber Narcissist (Part 2): Your Likes Complete Me

By Piya Chee


When Louis Ng finally came out on his narcissistic tendencies, I secretly applauded his honesty. For someone as self-assured as me, it’s something that I find tough coming to terms with – that I’m as caught in the craving for likes on my Facebook page; that I fear missing and losing out when I read about …